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You’ve read the recommended books, listened to all the podcasts, tried the tools, but it doesn’t last. You long to finally feel a real connection with your partner, but you aren’t sure which direction will take you to authentic and lasting change.
You’re ready to get curious and are open to doing things differently, but you don’t know how or where to start. You sooo want to feel sexually alive again, but that feels like a distant memory.
You feel like you have to constantly watch your words and walk on eggshells because you don’t want to hurt your partner’s feelings by speaking your truth and what you truly want is to re-connect and feel loved
You are so over arguments, feeling irritated and basically ‘what’s the use…. I just want a peaceful life….. Yet you know you love your partner and you know you are both capable of making it work
You want to feel like you can share anything together and it won’t end up in a big argument around who is right or wrong here!
You want to find some way to feel confident to initiate sex again, but it feels like a monumental hurdle to jump because… damn it hurts to be rejected!
After nearly 40 years with my husband, raising three children, and running businesses together, I realised we had put our intimacy on the back burner. I knew I wanted more, so I got curious about my own sexuality and what I needed, which led me on my journey to become a certified intimacy coach.
After 5 years of diving deeply into relationship dynamics, sexuality, and how trauma impacts connection, I’ve made it my mission to guide couple’s back to one another.
I help couples prioritise regular intimate time where they speak openly and honestly about their desires and fears. I help them remember that sensual intimacy is meant to feel light and not too serious!
Let’s meet on Zoom for a complimentary 30- minute Clarity call, either on your own or with your partner, where we can discuss what you really desire in your relationship, what blocks could be showing up and what working together could look like. I will use my 4Cs of Intimacy as a framework for your relationship transformation journey
When a relationship feels deeply uncomfortable, and you are struggling to find a way to have really honest conversations with each other, and you know you want to, this is a wonderful sign you are human, mature and might be ready for guided support
Relationships go through seasons just as in nature. Just because you do not feel happy and totally in love with each other constantly, this is wonderful information that this is OK to rest. There may also be some new pieces to add into your relationship to turn it into an honest thriving alive way of living together when the time feels right
Deep sensual intimacy is a choice between two humans. When it feels like what you have had has disappeared, it might be time to get curious about new ways of relating, new ways of seeing each other, different ways of opening yourselves up to the new, something you can lovingly experience together that feels exciting and life giving!
Follow along as I share my thoughts on intimacy, sex, relationships, monogamy, marriage and so much more
Read all postsShow Me Love can mean so many different things to different people Somehow it is always assumed that if you are with a partner that you actually love each other, and maybe for you that is the case. Or maybe you just are not sure as their behaviour does not feel very loving. Here is a series of questions that might prompt you to understand what LOVE actually means to you and how important it is or is not in your relationship.
Learn moreDo you notice when you are speaking, can you tell if your partner is really listening to you or not? Or do you feel that he or she has ‘left the building’ as it were? In other words, they are thinking about something else. When humans feel seen, heard, and understood by their partner this creates safety to share more of themselves and leads to the sensual intimacy you both desire
Learn moreWhy is it that a couple needs to have the same sex drive as each other? Why does one partner start to feel resentment because they are not getting the sex they want or crave? Why does the other partner feel guilty for not wanting the same amount of sex as their partner? All great questions and I say nothing is wrong here! This is just excellent information for a couple to be aware of then have a conversation!
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